Taking care of your pelvic floor health can feel like a huge mountain to climb.
At Sheela, we know that incontinence, prolapse and pain are not normal parts of ageing and there are loads of things that can help resolve your issues.
When you start researching pelvic floor issues for yourself, it can be totally overwhelming and can seem like it’s impossible to find the information that will help you.
The truth is everyone is unique and what will solve one person’s issues won’t necessarily work for the next person.
But there are some things that are true for all of us.
There are things we all do, every day, that can either support or stress your pelvic floor. And if we make small changes in these areas, we can make a big impact on our pelvic floor health.
Let me introduce you to:
The Five Pillars of Pelvic Floor Fitness
1. How You Go to the Toilet
Did you know there’s a right and a wrong way to go to the toilet?
When we’re little, we learn how to wipe our bums and how to wash our hands but rarely are we taught how to wee and poo.
Sitting on the toilet for long periods, bearing down, pushing and holding our breath all work against us when we’re trying to improve pelvic floor health.
When we sit on the toilet, we need to have our knees 1-2cm higher than our hips.
This allows the pelvic floor muscles to relax and allow the wee and poo to leave the body without stressing the pelvic floor muscles. Then all we have to do is lean forwards, put our elbows on our knees, relax our tummy muscles and breathe deeply. The gentle motion of our muscles as we breathe should be enough to get things moving.
No more pushing, straining or spending a long time on the toilet.
If there’s nothing happening; take a break, have a little walk, drink a glass of water and try again later.
The easiest way to achieve the correct posture on the toilet is to use a toilet step to rest your feet on but you can use anything – a pile of books, some toilet rolls, a bin – it really doesn’t matter.
Weeing and pooing like this takes a lot of strain off the pelvic floor muscles and even reduces the risk of developing haemorrhoids and let’s be honest, who doesn’t want that?
If you want to know more about pooing properly, read this free guide.
2. How You Think
The brain and the pelvic floor are connected by thousands of nerve endings all over the pelvic floor which connect to the brain via the pudendal nerve and the spinal cord. These nerves provide a highway for messages to travel between the brain and the pelvic floor.
Our pelvic floor muscles are under conscious and subconscious control which means that they will work without us thinking about it and we can use our brain to influence how these muscles contract and relax.
We have a pelvic stress reflex response which means that if we are under any physical or mental stress (it doesn’t have to be pelvic floor related), our pelvic floor muscles will tense up in response and tense pelvic floor muscles can’t always perform squeezes quickly or strongly enough to prevent leaks.
So what does all this mean for you?
Improving your mind/ body connection by meditating, visualising or exercising will all help you improve your ability to consciously relax and contract your pelvic floor muscles when you need to – reducing the stress they’re under, allowing you to strengthen them if you want, and enabling you to squeeze and release at will.
Try this visualisation exercise to get you started.
3. How You Eat and Drink
There are a lots of ways what and how you eat and drink can affect your pelvic floor function but there are two main questions to think about when you’re looking at your own habits.
Is what I’m eating and drinking helping support good muscle tone?
Is what I’m eating and drinking helping making poos that are easy to pass?
Follow these tips to ensure that how and what you eat and drink helps your pelvic floor muscles have everything they need to repair, grow, function well and remove any stress constipation might cause.
- Sip 2-3 litres of water each day but don’t over do it. Use your wee as a guide – it should be pale yellow with a faint smell.
- Include a portion of lean protein for muscle tone in every meal. Lean protein sources include chicken, fish, pulses, beans, tofu, eggs, natural yogurt and nuts (unsalted/ uncooked) and a portion is about the size of the palm of your hand.
- Ditch the white carbohydrates and switch to brown carbohydrates to up your fibre intake (brown rice, brown bread, brown pasta, etc.)
- Incorporate sources of soluble fibre into your diet (kiwi fruit, pears, prunes, oats, figs, apricots, flax seed, chia seed, beans, barley, etc.)
- Avoid liquids and foods that irritate the bladder (chilli, citrus, fizzy drinks, alcohol, caffeine, etc.)
4. How You Exercise
There is a widespread belief that pelvic floor exercise = kegels and we are here to tell you that it doesn’t!
Kegels (or pelvic floor squeezes) are just one way to exercise your pelvic floor muscles.
A kegel is an isolated squeeze of the pelvic floor muscles (and no other muscles). There are two kinds – fast and slow. Slow squeeze and holds improve strength and quick flicks improve responsiveness.
There are a number of reasons why kegels aren’t all they’re cracked up to be:
- it can be hard to know if you’re doing it right
- they’re not suitable for everyone
- if you have a tense pelvic floor, they could be making things worse
- a kegel routine is hard to maintain
- there are lots of exercises that actually recruit more pelvic floor muscle function than kegels alone (lunges, cat/cow, squats, bridge, etc.)
So if kegels aren’t it, what exactly is pelvic floor exercise?
You’ll be delighted to know, there’s a very simple answer to this one – all exercise can be pelvic floor exercise.
If we get really clear on where our pelvic floor muscles are, how they work, and what that feels like in our own unique bodies, all exercise can be pelvic floor exercise.
Generally speaking, we squeeze the pelvic floor muscles and exhale with effort and release and inhale as we relax. We can add this pelvic floor awareness to almost any resistance exercise.
Yoga and Pilates are particularly good for people who are working on their pelvic floor as they prioritise posture, core strength and breathing co-ordination – all of which are essential for good pelvic floor health.
Walking, swimming, and cycling and even lifting weights (mindfully!) are also excellent pelvic floor exercises.
Impact exercise i.e. anything that involves both feet off the floor at the same time – running, jumping, jumping jacks or burpees can put extra pressure on the pelvic floor so be mindful of these. If you leak when you do any of these, you need to build up your strength with more targeted exercises before doing these regularly.
If you’d like to learn more about performing a great pelvic floor squeeze and integrating these into sustainable exercise routines, check out our on demand course: The Pelvic Floor Connection.
5. How You Rest
Finally, we come to my favourite pillar: rest.
Muscles can only heal and grow stronger when we rest. This is because every time we strain a muscle, like when we exercise to the point of fatigue, there are tiny tears in our muscle fibres. When we rest the muscle, our bodies lay down more new fibres in the area which make the muscle stronger than it was before. It’s why exercise works – we stress the muscles creating micro tears and the body lays down new stronger muscle to repair it. But it only happens when we rest.
The pelvic floor muscles can only rest when we’re lying down. This is because when we’re standing or sitting, even if we’re consciously releasing our pelvic floor muscles, they’re still working hard to support the weight of our organs above them.
So, if you’re trying to improve your pelvic floor strength, all the exercise in the world won’t help you if you don’t get horizontal for 10 minutes a couple of times a day.
This might look like watching TV lying on the couch instead of sitting, reading a book lying on your bed, answering emails lying on the floor on your tummy or better still doing a short meditation to connect to your pelvic floor. The important thing is to lie down!
If you’d like to know more about how rest can help your muscle function, read this.
If you’re facing a pelvic floor issue like incontinence, prolapse or pain, pelvic floor health care can seem really intimidating.
Paying attention to the five pillars of pelvic floor fitness means that you are supporting your pelvic floor health as you go about your daily activities.
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Pelvic floor issues are incredibly common but not normal and that means there are ways to prevent, manage and treat pelvic floor issues at any age.
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